Traditional Chinese Medicine: The relationship between libido and lifespan, you must know!

A poem for everyone to warn the world. From "All Tang Poems, Warning the World", Lu Dongbin.

Twenty-eight beautiful human body like crisp, slash the fool with a sword at his waist; I don't see people falling in the open, Secretly withered the marrow of the king. There are many factors that affect the length of a person's lifespan. Swords, guns, fires, natural disasters and man-made disasters, these things that can be seen and easily understood by people will not be discussed. Here we mainly discuss the relationship between a person's libido and a person's lifespan. Lust and indulgence are the most life-consuming behaviors that people are most likely to commit and the most difficult to correct. Gao Dao Dade once taught: "I have often called the people of the world, and out of ten, there are four out of ten who die directly from lust. Indirect and the deceased also have four points. to be lost by lust and to death by other feelings. All these dead people are pushed to their fate. How do you know that the death of the lustful is not his life? He who is destined is a man who is pure in heart and does not covet desires. Those who are greedy for sex have killed themselves, how can it be said that they are fateful? As for those who are born according to their fate, and those who die at the end of their lives are only one or two cents. He knows that most of the people in the world have died in vain." From this, we can clearly understand that greed and lust cannot fulfill the destiny of heaven, and it is a chronic suicide. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that the kidneys are the foundation of life, and the vitality of the innate parents is hidden in the kidneys. If the kidney qi is sufficient, the functions of the five internal organs and six organs are coordinated, the face is shiny and ruddy, energetic, resistant, and not easy to get sick, while the kidney qi deficiency is the opposite. To make it easier to understand, let's give an example. The ancients believed that nature and man are one, and modern medicine has also proved that the physiological structure and activity of human beings are extremely similar to those of nature. For example, forests have lost their ability to regulate as a result of indiscriminate deforestation, which has resulted in smaller and smaller forest cover. Therefore, in recent years, there has been either drought or waterlogging, serious soil erosion, desertification, mudslides in some areas, landslides on both sides of the Yangtze River and the Yellow River, especially in recent years, sandstorms have appeared in some cities, which have brought great harm to people's lives and work. Therefore, these hazards can only be avoided by afforestation, sand fixation and wind protection. Similarly, due to lust and indulgence, people cause the leakage of essence and energy, and the lack of kidney qi, resulting in lack of energy, backache and weakness of the legs, weakness and weakness, dizziness and tinnitus, thirst and night sweats, low sleep quality, and weakened resistance, thus breeding all kinds of diseases and shortening life expectancy. Therefore, people should abstain from sex, strengthen their foundations, make themselves energetic, and enhance their resistance, so that they will not invade all diseases and live a long life. Everything must conform to the objective law, and the violation of the objective law will be punished. Modern people often say that "ten people have nine deficiencies", so there are a variety of kidney tonic drugs on the market, and these kidney tonic drugs do not cure the root cause. Because the root cause of kidney deficiency is indulgence, the best way to tonify the kidney is abstinence, and drugs only play an auxiliary role. Nowadays, there are many drugs and health products on the market that claim to "treat various sexual dysfunctions (impotence, premature ejaculation, etc.), and quickly restore men's male strength", these things are expensive, but many people buy them. People don't know that these things are actually sex pills, aphrodisiacs, drugs that make people die faster. Why? Because the so-called sexual dysfunction is a physical and psychological disease caused by people's lust and lust and sexual immorality, it is not just a problem of kidney deficiency. In this case, not understanding the root cause of sexual dysfunction, abstinence to nourish the kidneys, and slowly recovering, but wanting to continue to indulge in lust with the help of drugs, this is undoubtedly drying up and fishing. The pleasure of being obtained is at the cost of overdrawing physical strength and essence. Essence is like oil to raise a lamp. In the end, the body was hollowed out, the oil ran out, and the lamp was extinguished, and if you don't die, you will be disabled. The general principle of TCM treatment for kidney deficiency is "cultivate the deficiency, not the excess." Indulgence with drugs is the opposite of this principle. The "majestic wind" has not been shaken, the spirit is completely gone, and death is not far away. It can be seen from this that lust and indulgence can make people die quickly, and they cannot fulfill their destiny, so everyone must abstain from sex. So, how to abstain? Human behavior includes three aspects: body, mouth, and mind, so abstinence should also start from these three aspects. The first thing is to clean yourself. Sexual intervals between husband and wife should be abstinent and should not have any other sexual relations. With the spread of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), HIV carriers and mortality rates are on the rise, with 18.8 million people dying from AIDS so far, and more than 3 million last year alone. 16,000 people are now infected with HIV every day, and 10 countries in Africa have infection rates of more than 10 per cent. South Africa alone is home to 5 million people living with HIV, 250,000 people die each year from AIDS, and more than 10 per cent of the country's population is living with HIV. AIDS has become the most important problem in the country, directly affecting the national economy and people's livelihood, so much so that the South African president has to personally call on everyone to use condoms to prevent AIDS. Especially in Eswatini, where 40% of the country's population is living with HIV, it is truly a disaster that destroys the country. Sexual relationship disorders are a big cause of this disaster. Secondly, pay attention to the way the language is expressed. Don't tell pornographic jokes, don't tell meat jokes, and don't say things that can make you and others lustful. Some people just listen to these low-level and obscene words and become motivated, and gradually embark on the path of making mistakes and even committing crimes. The most difficult thing to get rid of is human immorality. Lust is produced by lustful thoughts that are rooted in human consciousness (the first two actions are also produced by lustful thoughts). Sexual immorality comes and goes, is born with the environment, and dies with the environment. When it is generated, people are often addicted to it and cannot extricate themselves from it, and cannot be self-alarmed; When it is eliminated, there is nothing to be gained, no one knows, so it is at ease, and the weak-willed are often mired in it. Some people may have feelings of shame and fear, but they are fleeting. At the same time, some people think that I am just thinking about it, and I have not done anything, and I have not harmed others, so what does it matter. This makes it easy for people to be self-indulgent and unaware of the dangers of sexual immorality. In fact, sexual immorality is very harmful to people. (Can you do it?) ) If you often indulge yourself and do not resist or eliminate sexual immorality when it occurs, in the long run, lustful thoughts will take deeper and deeper root in your consciousness, and on some occasions you will express it in obscene language, and gradually think that it is okay to actually do it, and you will gradually embark on the road of making mistakes or even committing crimes, and such examples are not uncommon. In fact, many people also know that sexual immorality is bad, but they are confident that they will control it well and will not make mistakes, and they do not realize that sexual immorality is very corrosive to people's will. Sexual immorality is also very harmful to the human body. In the famous book of Chinese medicine "Jingyue Quanshu", it is said: "The heart is the king's fire, the kidneys are the phase fire, the heart is moving, and the kidneys must respond." In the "Taishang Induction Chapter", it is said: "Because the essence of the human body is scattered in the three focal points (referring to the heart and lungs, spleen and stomach, liver and kidneys, large and small intestines, and bladder), the glory of the hundred veins, and the desire to move, gather and circulate, all come out of the gate of life (attached to the kidneys), which is extremely terrifying." Sexual immorality will leak out of the essence, and in the long run, it will also have kidney deficiency, which is why some young people who are not married or have sex are also kidney deficient. Gao Dao Baoyangzi of the Ming Dynasty once said: "Whoever sees beauty and becomes greedy and causes the body to run in the sound and lust is called the desire of external feelings. Sleeping in bed late at night, thinking about the company of beautiful women, so the lustful thoughts are like fire, which is called the desire of the heart. Anyone who is greedy for beauty, the physical and mental desires will be lingering, and the most important thing is to damage the essence and hurt the qi, so it is easy to contract diseases. If you can stay away from lust, then the essence will not be exposed, and the kidney water will naturally breed, and it can be handed over to the heart. If you don't think about beauty, your heart is always clear, that is, you can make your heart not inflamed, but you can hand it over to the kidneys. Fire and water can be adjusted, and all physical and mental diseases can be eliminated. This is called being good at regulating the body and mind, and the disease can be cured without medicine.